Getting to the Altar
Shared Purpose

Vision Building

Building Together

Creating a shared vision is essential if a marriage is going to thrive. Without vision, people may walk together for a season, but eventually drift apart. Vision gives direction. It answers the questions: Where are we going? What are we building? And are we building it God’s way?

Yeshua also demonstrated how we are to live if we hope to build a successful home. His life modeled order, submission to the Father, discipline, love, and sacrifice. Marriage is no different.

Rock Foundation
“Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock.” — Matthew 7:24

So what is a rock foundation? It is one built on spiritual maturity — two individuals growing in their walk with God, committed to prayer, obedience, and truth.

“Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it.” — Psalm 127:1
Maturity

It is built on emotional maturity — the ability to communicate honestly, take responsibility, extend grace, and resolve conflict without destruction.

“He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.” — Proverbs 16:32

It is built on financial maturity — stewardship, wisdom, discipline, and agreement regarding resources, priorities, and planning.

“For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost…?” — Luke 14:28

And above all, it is built on love — not the world’s definition, but love as defined by Elohim Himself. This love is patient, disciplined, selfless, and enduring.

“Love suffereth long, and is kind… beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

When two people align their vision around faith, family, and finances — and submit that vision to God — they are no longer building blindly. They are building with intention, wisdom, and unity.

Getting to the Altar teaches you how to have the necessary conversations before marriage. Because a house built on the Rock does not collapse when the storms come.